If you have a problem with me, tell me. Not to everyone else.∼ Quotes Life101
Unfortunately, many people like to spread damaging information or intimate details about others, whether true or not. This is called gossip.
Now, have you been in a situation where someone would gossip everything about you to other people? I am sure most of us. So I would like to say that I have been a target of gossip these past few days.
Last Wednesday, I had an encounter with whom I call now one of the dangerous “gossipers” I have encountered in my entire life. She’s a she, let’s call her CT and in all honesty, we don’t know each other well. As I can remember, we became schoolmates for just 1 year when we were still in high school.
About the happenings, I am not going to elaborate the whole story and information here. In short, she was like spreading negative gossip about me (again, we don’t know each other well). But before that, one of her male fb friends (let’s call him GM) sent her a message asking if she has my number because he probably saw that CT is one of our mutual friends on fb. Moreover, CT even commented on one of my public posts before. Again, we don’t know each other well and we were not even close before up to now so definitely she doesn’t have my number.
After that, she kept on sending a negative information about me to GM without knowing that he was one of my admirers before. We were not in good terms with this guy so I kept on ignoring his messages before (wait, this blog post is not about us) . So moving on, luckily…GM sent me right away their whole conversation. And boom! I was really bothered, shocked and trembling with anger while I was reading their conversation.It was very destructive and hurtful. I do believe that we all have the desire to prove our own innocence so I got her number from one of her relatives. I called her right away and she was like putting all the blame on me. Seriously!? This is too much.! I screamed and I wanted to curse her just after our conversation! But NO! As a believer and follower of God, I will never ever do it.
I just wish that she should stop doing this to other people. It is not nice to gossip and talk poorly about someone. I experienced this numerous amount of times and I found it to be such a terrible thing to go through. A gossiper from my perspective just spells trouble. And I’m brave enough to say that I can deal with them as best as I can but I just realized after this recent happenings that I’d rather not let her words bother me and say “I know myself so I don’t care” rather than arguing with her nonsense drama because I value my reputation. I realized as well that, You! Yes you! Why don’t you just mind your own business and look in the mirror before you judge other people hah!?. But well, what goes around comes around. So go ahead enjoy!
Furthermore, some people spread and talk other people just to satisfy their jealousy, because they don’t feel good about themselves and in order to hurt those whose popularity, talents or lifestyle they envy. And well, proven!
My point here is to never gossip and make up stories about others just to feel like you have power over others. It’s not good at all.
So I wanted to share that I will never ever gossip another person, judge another person and damage another person’s reputation because I do believe that good people will be protected by God in the end! Now, If you have a problem with me, tell me directly. Not to everyone else.! I dare you!
Author’s Note : You will never win with gossipers while arguing with them. Remember that gossipers will always find a way to bring back to you their action once you confronted them. Just bear in mind that GOD SEES EVERYTHING, KNOWS EVERYTHING. So never attempt to argue with them. Just smile like a beauty queen, flip that hair, pose like a beauty queen then walk away with your chin up and let God deal with them.. For “VENGEANCE IS MINE, I WILL REPAY” says the Lord. 🙏☺☺
Thank you for reading.